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title: "Inna Belen: 'The probability of divorce is 90%'. The winner of 'The Bachelor' on choosing between safety and family in Kharkiv"
description: "Inna Belen spoke openly about the dilemma: stay in Kharkiv under shelling or leave and risk the breakdown of her marriage. The winner of 'The Bachelor' admitted that she does not want to deprive her daughter of her father and grandparents, despite appeals from other mothers. 🏠🇺🇦"
date: 2026-07-15T19:34:00.000Z
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# Inna Belen: 'The probability of divorce is 90%'. The winner of 'The Bachelor' on choosing between safety and family in Kharkiv

![Inna Belen, winner of 'The Bachelor', in an elegant look with golden curls and makeup — discusses marriage breakdown risks and choosing between safety and family in Kharkiv](https://xab.info/media/2026/07/15/inna-belen-ostatsya-v-kharkove-raskryla-prichiny/inna-belen-ostatsya-v-kharkove-raskryla-prichiny-1.webp)

Inna Belen, the winner of the 13th season of the show 'The Bachelor', revealed details of her family life during the war in an interview with Ksenia Shcherbach's program (citing RBK-Ukraine). The blogger admitted that despite constant risks and shelling, she and her husband have not yet decided to move out of Kharkiv.

### Dilemma: safety or preserving the family

On air, Belen shared that after particularly heavy shelling, she and her husband try to return to their routine and cherish every quiet day. Her husband remains her main support during these difficult times, helping her get through the hardest moments.

However, concern for the child's safety has sparked heated discussions on social media. Inna admitted that she often receives messages from other mothers urgently urging her to leave Kharkiv to save her daughter. But the blogger herself sees serious risks to the family's well-being in such a decision.

"Many mothers write: 'How can you put the child in danger? Leave!' But I understand that, according to statistics, if we leave now, the child will grow up without a father, and the probability that our marriage will break down is 90%," Inna explained.

### The cost of separation

For Belen, the priority is the child's daily communication with her father and close relatives. She notes that her daughter is growing very fast right now, and the family is not ready to see each other rarely due to the distance.

"I understand that the child is changing every day, growing every day, learning something new every day. And I understand: if we leave now, how often will we be able to visit to show her to her grandmother and grandfather? So I don't know what the solution is. I have no idea," the blogger confessed.

Currently, Inna remains in Kharkiv, hoping for the war to end soon. She dreams of the day when they can live peacefully, without crying over the tragedies happening in the city or across the country.

### From reality show to motherhood

Inna Belen became widely known to the public after winning a romantic reality show. After the project, she was in a relationship with the main character, Alexander Teren, but the couple eventually broke up.

Fate brought Inna together with Ivan Yalovenko, whom she has known since school. For a long time, they were just friends, but years later their relationship blossomed into love. At the end of 2025, Ivan proposed, and in February 2026, the couple officially registered their marriage.

In the spring of 2026, the couple became parents for the first time. On April 28, Inna gave birth to a daughter named Kira. Motherhood radically changed the blogger's life, who now regularly shares the joys and difficulties of the baby's first months on social media, showing how she and her husband care for their daughter.