Popular Ukrainian blogger Simbochka, known on social media under this pseudonym and in real life as Karina Kuchmenko, has openly shared a personal tragedy she experienced in her youth. In a recent interview with Masha Efrosinina, she spoke about the difficult experience of her first desired pregnancy, which ended when she was only 18 years old. This story sparked widespread resonance among subscribers and internet users, raising important issues of psychological support and emotional trauma.
Background and a series of stresses
As the blogger herself admitted, the pregnancy was fully planned, as she had long dreamed of motherhood. However, unforeseen circumstances hindered a calm pregnancy. First, Karina got into a car accident; her friend was driving, and the car belonged to her husband. Although physical injuries were avoided, severe fright and stress over potential material problems became a serious blow to the young girl. Soon, a new stress followed, after which alarming symptoms appeared at the sixth week.
Medical diagnosis and hospital trials
Having turned to doctors with a threat of miscarriage, Simbochka was ready to pay any money to save the child, considering that she was already successfully earning money through blogging at that time. After a short stay in the hospital, she was discharged, but soon heavy bleeding resumed. During a repeated ultrasound with a doctor she trusted, the horrifying truth came to light: the pregnancy had terminated, and the girl had been carrying a dead fetus for a week. The doctor's calm reaction to the tragic news shocked the 18-year-old patient and provoked a deep hysteria.
Physical agony and husband's reaction
After being prescribed medication to stimulate a miscarriage, the most difficult stage began. According to Simbochka, this process turned out to be much more painful than childbirth itself. The night passed in unbearable torment, and the next day the gestational sac came out. The girl sat over it in the bathroom for two hours, sobbing and perceiving what happened as the loss of a child. Her husband, trying to rid his beloved of the "source of stress" during her moment of severe emotional breakdown, wrapped the embryo in a bag and flushed it down in front of his grief-stricken wife. Later, the blogger emphasized that she does not blame her husband for cruelty, realizing that he simply did not know how to handle the situation.
