In Ukraine, the Day of Education Workers is traditionally celebrated on the first Sunday of October, and in 2026 this professional holiday falls on October 4. On this day, not only school teachers are congratulated, but also university lecturers, kindergarten educators, and all other workers in the education sector. Ahead of the holiday, parents and students once again face the eternal question: what to give a teacher so as not to make a mistake or cause offense. In recent years, the format of the "mandatory bouquet and box of chocolates" has increasingly come into question — and teachers themselves are actively speaking out about which gifts they truly do not need.
Why flowers and sweets are no longer a universal solution
On social media, in particular in a discussion on the Threads platform, teachers openly shared which gifts they ask people to refrain from giving. One teacher explained that she has diabetes, so expensive sweets are not only unnecessary for her but also harmful. She also considers it unwise to spend significant money on flowers that will wilt within a few days. According to her, the most valuable gift from a graduating class was a pack of stevia, a jar of tea, and a wall newspaper with memories — that is, personal, useful, and emotionally meaningful items, rather than mass-produced and perishable ones.
"We are not beggars": the stance of teachers who want nothing
Some teachers take a principled stance: there is no universal gift, and some do not want to receive anything at all. "Nothing. We are not beggars," wrote one of the participants in the discussion. Another emphasized that instead of gifts, parents simply need to instill in their children respect for teachers, mutual help, and responsibility. "I want all my children to walk into the classroom. I want to hug each one. I want to see their eyes and smiles. From parents — please do not devalue the work of teachers. People with whom children spend more time than at home. That is enough," noted another user. For such teachers, the best "gift" remains respect, normal communication with parents, and children who genuinely want to learn.
Contradictory data
The positions of teachers in the discussion vary noticeably, and this is important to honestly acknowledge. On the one hand, there is a group of teachers who categorically refuse any material gifts and consider the very need to give them a "devaluation" of their work. On the other hand, some teachers view symbolic gifts positively: for example, in one kindergarten, according to a participant in the discussion, they give certificates and a box of chocolates, while flowers are not bought, since that money could be spent on something more specific. In other words, there is no single "correct" answer: for some, any gift is undue pressure, while for others it is a pleasant and appropriate gesture. That is precisely why experts and the teachers themselves agree on one thing: the best way not to make a mistake is to ask the teacher in advance whether they would like to receive something and what exactly they need.
What to give if you still want to make a present
For those who still want to give something specific, the discussion offered a practical list of ideas. This could be a certificate to a store where the teacher can choose the items they need themselves (in the comments, the chains "Eva," "Epcenter," "Rozetka," and others were mentioned). One teacher shared that she compiled a list of books and board games she would like to see in the classroom, and parents could, if they wished, purchase something from the list. Paper, film for laminating, and other consumables, according to her, are useful specifically for working with children. A small symbolic gift is appropriate if parents know exactly what the teacher loves, and if a teacher truly needs a specific item for work, it can be purchased jointly with the parents instead of dozens of identical souvenirs. Another suggested option is to direct the money to a current fundraiser instead of a personal gift.
The main rule: a gift must not become a source of conflict
Teachers specifically emphasize: a gift must not turn into a cause of conflicts between parents or into a mandatory collection of funds. This is the key caveat that distinguishes a voluntary gesture from pressure. The conclusion of the discussion is simple: in 2026, as in previous years, Teacher's Day in Ukraine is on October 4, and the best "gift" for most teachers remains respectful treatment, adequate communication, and children who come to class with a desire to learn. If you still want to make a present — ask the teacher directly, and you will definitely not make a mistake.