Singer Natalya Valevskaya has publicly and candidly shared her difficult and painful journey to motherhood for the first time. During a recent interview, the artist admitted to experiencing several devastating losses and considers herself the mother of three unborn children. For the 45-year-old singer, this topic remained closed for a long time, but now she has decided to share her story to support women facing similar challenges.
"I Blocked the Function of Motherhood"
Valevskaya admitted that during a certain period of her life, she felt an internal barrier related to motherhood. According to her, only this year was she able to realize the causes of her distress.
"I felt that at a certain time I blocked the function of motherhood. Only this year did it dawn on me. I simply cannot talk about motherhood easily because it is a very painful topic for me," the singer shared.
The artist emphasized that she lost children in different years, specifically in 2022 and in the past. "Last year was a very tragic moment for me. I lost a child. There was also a moment in 2022 when I lost a child," she recalled.
Acceptance and Forgiveness
Valevskaya noted that for a long time she blamed herself for what happened, linking it to a certain step she took in the past. However, she has now found a path to forgiveness.
"Who is to blame? I am, because I once took a certain step. But I have already asked God for forgiveness for it during confession. It means God has already forgiven me. I need to forgive myself," the singer said.
She also spoke about an important stage — personally saying goodbye to the losses she endured. "I just decided to go out into the forest. I identified a place of memory for these three unborn children. I talked to them. I cried," the artist recalled. In her opinion, it is important to allow oneself to experience difficult emotions, even if this does not lead to the birth of a child.
Support for Childless Women
Natalya Valevskaya addressed women who, for various reasons, do not have children or cannot become mothers. She emphasized that happiness does not depend on having children.
"You can be childfree and have the right to be happy, even without giving birth to a child in your life. I have already accepted that I may never give birth to a child," the singer noted. At the same time, she did not rule out the possibility of adoption in the future, although surrogacy is unacceptable to her.
History from 2003
In one of the interviews, Natalya honestly admitted that in 2003 she terminated a pregnancy because a pathology was detected in the future child. At that time, she was 22 years old.
"I was simply not formed. We were still immature, young, and made a mistake for which I have personally forgiven my husband and forgiven myself, I have already confessed and received communion," she shared details back then.
In 2019, Valevskaya spoke about undergoing necessary examinations to get pregnant. At that time, she also underwent surgery to increase the chances of pregnancy. And in 2022, news of her divorce from Vladimir Priluchny became known.
New Relationships and Hopes
At the beginning of 2025, the singer announced new relationships. However, she carefully conceals the name and face of her new love. Despite all the difficulties, Valevskaya does not lose hope and dreams of having a child with her husband.
"I wish that you have children, and that I have children with my husband. But, please, focus your attention on the fact that you have the right to be happy despite everything," the singer concluded.
